| At first I wasn’t exactly sure what to write about today, I had so many ideas. Are you ever indecisive? I find that not being able to make quick, confident decisions on a regular basis can, in itself, become a great source of stress. The decisions we are required to make are ever increasing. |
Do you:
- Have trouble deciding what emails to delete?
- What offers to follow up on?
- What to toss when de-cluttering?
- How to respond to a communication?
Sometimes we have so many choices it can be overwhelming. Then there are those life altering decisions that pertain to relationships or perhaps a job. The song ”Should I stay or should I go now” comes to mind. Napoleon Hill says, ” Indecision is the seedling of fear”. Maybe that’s why many of us sit on a fence about certain things, knowing as we do that every choice we make has an outcome. Not making a decision though, has consequences too. In essence, we stay stuck. If you can’t decide what career move you want to make, for example, there really is nowhere to go. Are you satisfied with your current life circumstances? I like the following quote by Montaigne who said, ”No wind serves him who addresses his voyage to no certain port”. I’ve heard it said, “that the number one reason we don’t get what we want, is because we don’t know what we want.” The universal law of attraction requires us to know explicitly what it is we want for us to be able to manifest it. If you don’ t know what you want, try this. Author Michael Losier offers an exercise in his book that encourages you to write down what you don’t want. Once you’ve made the list, reverse it by writing down the opposite, positive statements. For example, instead of saying, “I don’t want to waste my time”, you can flip it and say, “I want to be effectively using my time”. That’s a better way to get clearer about what you want. In the following video clip he is discussing how to attract what you want, once you’ve decided. Sometimes the reason we don’t make a decision is that we doubt that we can follow through on it. We’ve basically decided to resign….but is giving up really a viable option? Here is a video clip of Les Brown inspiring us all to go beyond what we think we’re capable of, to work on ourselves and go for our dreams.
In my upcoming group coaching program, ” Honouring your Heart’s Desire”, simple exercises are taught to improve your intuition which can help you when you are faced with indecison. You can gain the clarity, support and the momentum you need to see a decision through to fruition by participating in this 12 week coaching program If you prefer to pursue your dream through individual coaching, then I offer you that option as well. Not sure whether or not coaching would benefit you? How will you know for sure until you’ve experienced it? You never quite know where a single action may lead! So what’s next for you? Where do you want to place your energy, attention and focus? What would you like to create or make a committed decision about? I’d love to hear from you. Until next time, Ali CAJZM7E5PQG7
